Ask Aphrodisia
I'm a crossdresser. What can you do for me?
Aphrodisia serves the cross dressing and transgendered community in several ways.
Testimonial from a cross dresser: "Hi, i would just like to say thanks for the lovely bra and knicker set I purchesed from your store recently. It took me a while to pluck up the courage to visit - being a crossdresser it was embarrassing for me. But I'm so glad I did. You have lingere I could only dream of before. I'll be coming again soon. Thank you so much, CV"
We're here to give you, the customer, quality service at a competitive price in an environment where you feel relaxed and understood.
There are various sections of our website we think you will be particularly interested in. But let's start with practical ways that we can help you to achieve a womanly, hourglass figure.
(If you would like to scroll to the end of this article when you have done your shopping, you will find some information about the ontological take on gender, mainly based on the Hindu scriptures, that you might find interesting.)
- Our Enhancers section offers Silicone Secrets, otherwise known as chicken fillets! These will increase your bust by one whole size and come in small, medium and large. You will need to wear an underwired bra to keep these in place. This product is the favourite of Hollywood stars, because it is made from top quality silicone which moulds to the body, warms to the body and moves with it. In fact, it feels completely natural. These cost £39.90.
- If you would prefer to wear a half cup bra, the Silicone Secrets will protrude over the top, so you will need the smaller (and cheaper!) Shapers which come in one size only at £17.90.
- How about a gel filled bra which will boost you by a cup size, or even a gel filled bikini top?
- Bodyshapers include a traditional panty girdle and a thong tummy shaper.
Another way to achieve an hourglass, womanly figure with a four inch pull in is to buy a Jane Woolrich made to order corset. These don't come cheap, starting at about £199, but they are handmade especially to your measurements from fine silk, and there is no upper limit to the size, provided there is no underwire. They are frequently worn as outerwear because they are so glam.
Enough with the commercial stuff, now the ontolotical stuff. In Hinduism, god is whole - in other words neither male nor female, neither black nor white, neither day nor night - but encompassing the full spectrum. If you travel to India you will see depictions of Shiva/Shakti, which is a sculpture of one body, half being male, and the other half being female. This represents the 'wholeness' which encompasses opposites.
We as souls are seen as constantly reincarnated until we reach nirvana (or the need not to be born anymore), but in one life we could be incarnated in a male body and in another we could be incarnated in a female body. So the soul is 'sexless'. The gender of the body in a particular society can be seen as paramount but in the celestial kingdom it is as nothing, we are, simply, individual souls that believe ...
and here we get on to the really complex bit!! That believe that we are individuals.
The truth as I believe it, at risk of sounding like a right loony, is that we are not individuals. We are all part of just one manifestation of reality, and as one of my gurus put it, who happened to be called Alan Watts, "I am not Alan Watts, I am just Alan Wattsing in this life."
If that helps anyone that is reading this I am truely delighted. Give to your local AIDS charity or do something nice to show your appreciation!